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twenty year old girl living in the city of fast moving cars and faster moving people. shy yet alert to what's always going on. reminiscing about what used to be & dreaming about what the future holds. creativity & randomness flowing through her life. & ready to take on new challenges

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In the past couple of weeks or even months I have either read or heard people saying the same thing about, “I’m now realizing who is there for me and who isn’t” more or less along those lines. But what everyone seems to not realize is at one point or another those people you’re so mad at for not being there for you have been there at some point another for for something to have the nerve so say “I’m cutting out the people that aren’t there for me” is bullshit. Oh or even the people that get upset at you because you’re not on their ass anymore. I see why people do the things they do and act the way they do. You can’t really get mad at someone when they stop trying to be there, of course it’s natural to be disappointed but to be mad and say they were never there is fucked up of you because you had people there for you but you were too up under other peoples asses to see it. I understand that in life we all make choices, nobody makes those for us. We choose to be there and then we make the choice to not be there anymore because of how we were treated. So in the end the one person you can blame is yourself and nobody else.

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